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Never too early to protect your young child in the cyber world

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In this article, you’ll find answers to questions like:

1. How can parents avoid causing fear?
2. How can parents monitor devices?

These days, the popularity of YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, and Snapchat may push you to address touchy subjects with your elementary-school-aged children sooner than you want. Cyberbullying and online predators can strike quickly. Here are some tips.

1. HOW CAN PARENTS AVOID CAUSING FEAR?

The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) encourages parents to make internet safety a priority when talking to children. Their NetSmartz site offers free resources for parents, and NetSmartzKids has fun, interactive activities for elementary-school-aged kids that teach online safety through activities, e-books, games, and videos.

“Listen to your child’s concerns and talk through what they may do if they receive messages that make them feel uncomfortable or bullied. Approach conversations with your child with a sense of reassurance and be open-minded,” says Callahan Walsh, executive director of the NCMEC Florida Regional Office.

FAU Professor Sameer Hinduja shares some suggested questions from the Cyberbullying Research Center: What is your favorite app? What do you do on it? How do you keep yourself safe online?

The earlier you initiate conversations, the better off you and your kids will be if there is a crisis, the Cyberbullying Center advises.

2. HOW TO MONITOR DEVICES?

Keep internet-accessible devices in a public area in your home and turn off Wi-Fi at night. A phone limited to calls and texts is a good option for younger kids. Review your older children’s friend lists, remove any inappropriate content and photos, delete too-personal information, and report any inappropriate behavior to site administrators.

And if the unimaginable happens, and your child is missing, call 911 and then contact the NCMEC’s 24-hour hotline at 1-800-THE-LOST (1-800–843–5678), located at NCMEC’s regional office here in Palm Beach County.

SOURCES:

Callahan Walsh, executive director, Florida Regional Office Development, National Center for Missing & Exploited Children

Sameer Hinduja, Florida Atlantic University professor and co-director of the Cyberbullying Research Center

NetSmartz: https://www.missingkids.org/netsmartz

NetSmartzKids: https://www.netsmartzkids.org

CyberTipline: https://www.missingkids.org/gethelpnow/cybertipline

 

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